Wednesday, 25 January 2012

Checking in with Grandad

13 Jan- 15 Jan 2011

We rented the same hybrid that we drove to Andover in last Fall to make the 3 1/2 hour drive to Bolton--a Toyota Auris.  Random note: We rented a "mid-sized" automatic at Christmas which, in America, means VW Passat or similar.  Here it means VW Golf or similar, which in the U.S. classifies as compact.  Can you believe they actually have a smaller model?  Yes!  It's the VW Polo.  Thankfully we haven't opted for that, especially when we have a 5th passenger.  As it is I could barely squeeze my hips between the 2 car seats.

Grandad Fearnley is in superb shape and he got to spend a lot of quality time with his two youngest grandsons.  He still gets frustrated when he can't find words, which are mostly proper nouns, but it is becoming less and less frequent.  

We used our National Trust membership cards for the first time to visit the winter gardens at Dunham Massey in Altrincham (pronounced Alt-ring-um, silly Americans!)  Also on the picturesque grounds was a large deer park, which was-- of course-- a hit with Bryce.

We had the luck of crisp, clear weather.  Bryce was not really on his best behaviour, but Grandad was patient and sympathetic.  Though he claims that Stephen, as a child, was "good as gold."  "Seen and not heard."  So. Jealous.

Stephen is pointing out that Bryce has not swung through the front window on the curtains, yet.   I have a feeling Grandma and Grandad Fearnley saw and heard that one.

Said our goodbyes on Sunday afternoon and as droopy as Stephen and I were, I think Bryce was saddest of all.  He really loves his Grandad and he asked repeatedly on the way home where he was.

Some of our drive home was during the light of day, so we had stunning views which couldn't be captured in a moving car.  We drove in and out of a blinding pocket of fog that started and ended so abruptly you could see the car in front of you disappear completely into and out of it.  Bryce enjoyed pointing out sheep, cows, planes, and birds.  Ellis was a champ and slept most of the way-- a new and much appreciated talent of his.

Lastly, want to update everyone-- Ellis is a seasoned cruiser at the moment and we are thinking his first steps are imminent!  Bryce has his second and last "settling-in" session at preschool on Friday and will be a full-fledged student at Ace Nursery School next week after he turns 2 1/2!  More on that later! 
Love and miss everyone!  Hope you are keeping warm and healthy.  XO


The Hall at Dunham Massey

I spy 4 Fearnleys!

A-ha!

The snowdrops were just beginning to pop up.  They have thousands and thousands of them.  I can't imagine what it is going to look like next month!


Robin Redbreast.  Many don't know what Americans call a "robin" and what Europeans call a "robin" are very different!

Sadly we had to return the map of the gardens, so I can't identify the plants.  These look like little silver birchy guys, but not sure.


Blossoms in January!  Who knew?

Still frost on the ground in late afternoon!
Corkscrew hazel



Some wintery breed of iris

Buddies
Creepy trees

Back of the main hall
The Orangery

More winter garden.  I love how that tree on the right is completely flat up top

Afternoon sun getting heavy

View from Winter gardens toward the home

No pictures, please!

Grandad points out the tiny oranges inside the Orangery

A moat ran around 2/3 of the stately home
Fallow deer in the deer park

Handsome.  And a bit close for comfort.  I'll keep moving, thank you!

The one on the left was so light and pretty-- looked like it was glowing.

The slaughterhouse-- seemingly straight out of a horror film.  Sadly, it's not still in use.  I do love me some venison.

Why haven't I thought of this sooner?  THE BEST TIME-OUT CHAIR EVER.  May need to pinch one the next time we stay at the Holiday Inn, Bolton.

Ellis & Grandad sharing a laugh

Brothers!

Always smiling, this kid.
5-day-old calf!  SO soft and sweet.  Poor thing has been away from his mommy since it was born.  Stephen got to feed it a (giant) bottle!

Cute goat kids

Strolling around Smithills Home Farm

Oink!  This pig wasn't very well educated.  It didn't respond when I greeted him in Pig Latin.  "Ellohay Iggypay!"

Bryce later revealed that the snakes were his favorite animal on the farm.

Free-roaming pygmy goats tugging on my clothes for the millionth time.

Fog blanket

Friday, 20 January 2012

Day trip to Ely

1 Jan- 8 Jan

Forgot to mention in my last post that we had unexpected New Year's Eve plans.  Our neighbors (with kids--2 girls, 2 and 4) came over around 6:30 to tell us they were having a party and to please come over.  Bring the kids.  We ate our dinner and went over, expecting to stay for an hour max.  
Well... turns out (and we experimented with this on one other occasion when they came over for drinks / hors d'oeuvres) their baby monitor has excellent range.   Sooooo, we put the kids to bed and resumed frolicking to the wee hours.  Of course we came to check on them on occasion to put our minds at ease, but it was nice to have some spontaneity and grown-up conversation and tasty drinks.

The following weekend we took the bus to Ely, a city just north of Cambridge, to check out its cathedral.  It was a decent adventure, but with the memory of King's College Chapel and Winchester Cathedral fresh in our minds, the cathedral in Ely paled in comparison-- not just its appearance, but it's curative (is that a word?) organization.  Let's just say that there could be more done to highlight its significance, design, and history.  Quite frankly, we left with a lot of questions and wished we had taken a guided tour which is not really an option with an over-active and chatty 2-year-old.  Last gripe: at £7pp entry, you'd think they'd just absorb the cost of the scant and useless tri-fold pamphlet, but no!  "That'll be an additional 50p, sir."  50p?  Seriously?  And whoever wrote it managed to slip in countless preachy bits between the minimal historical facts.  "Take a moment to reflect on what it is in your life that needs the restoring touch of the Risen Christ."  Really?  In an historical pamphlet?  

Ok, rant finished. 

We decided not to stay for Evensong as it started after the departure of the last bus back to Cambridge.  Instead, we took a walk over to an indoor play center and let Bryce bathe in the germy ball pit whilst we relaxed with a pint and some onion rings.  Sadly, Bryce noticed the bowling alley on our way out and screamed bloody murder that he wanted to go bowling.  I think I know how we'll be spending his 3rd birthday.  Bumper ball here we come.

Flat countryside with just the Cathedral sticking up out of the landscape

An enthusiastic Bryce on the bus ride.  He got to ride up top on the way back!  We never get to do that because I am by myself and can't leave the buggy / Ellis alone downstairs.  So with Stephen along, Bryce and I went up top for a fun view.

Ely Cathedral from the side

And from the front.  Ely Cathedral, for those who care, was founded as a monastery in 673, destroyed by the Danes in 870, re-founded in 970 as a Benedictine community.  Work on the current building began in 1081.  But then the central tower collapsed in 1322 and then they replaced it with this Medieval octagonal lantern, shown in the below pics.  The oldest parts of the cathedral still standing are from 1090.  Hmmm, that would suggest they didn't really start work in 1081 but I'm going to stop judging this pamphlet now.

Beautiful entrance

It's hard not to feel teeny tiny and insignificant

"The Octagon"

Lovely Christmas tree still up


Love the pose

Ornate decoration in Bishop West's Chapel

Nice organ

The big picture.  Also of note is that a scene from "The King's Speech" was filmed at Ely Cathedral.

Saying a few Hail Marys in the Lady Chapel

View from the back of the cathedral
I think I am going to do a whole post on dream homes.  This is one we passed in Ely.

Yes, the sky was really pink.

Yay!  Germy ball pit!

Can't help myself.  I have this addiction to putting my boys in boxes.
Bryce's Christmas Duplos from Aunt Carrie & Co.  I like that this structure has a rooftop garden.

Bryce set this up next to me on the desk and said, "Here you go, Mummy."